people.

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks — even months, analyzing a situation, trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could’ve, should’ve, would’ve happened. Or, you can just leave the pieces on the floor and realize there’s a reason they’re down there.”

always easier said than done. but i just don't get people who insist on making things harder for themselves - we only get ONE, very short life to live, so why waste time and energy on the wrong person or spend your life in hope, that things will eventually change. if they aren't how you want them now, chances are they never will be. sad, but 9 times out of 10, very true. people are in control of their own lives and are responsible for the choices and actions they make every day. be strong, don't blame the world for your problems, take responsibility, live your life the way you want to, and don't let regrets or negative people get you down or stop you being who you want to be.

i definitely never want to be one of those people who look back on their lives when i'm old and grey and think to myself "how differently would i have lived my life if i could do it all again"

xo